“It quite literally stops him from ejaculating. (“Squeeze the base of his penis,” Cosmopolitan advises. (“We have sex like Kenyan marathon runners,” Olivia Wilde once bragged of fiancé Jason Sudeikis.) Men’s and women’s magazines alike offer listicles on how to make sex last longer. How many minutes of sex is enough, and how many is too few? In public and pop culture, tales of sex that lasts all night long tend to draw low whistles and nods of approval. “Even if that were possible, it’d be at least 20 minutes too much of sex.” Almost Sting-like.” I sent the link to two friends. Instead, TMZ described the two versions its editors had seen: “Both tapes are impressively long - the first is roughly 20 minutes and the second is more than 40. In 2012, Kanye West successfully halted the distribution of a sex tape reportedly depicting him in flagrante with a Kim Kardashian look-alike. “Sometimes I think we’ve been at it for an hour.